Sessions
My practice focuses on creating a safe and intentional space where the body and mind are fully experienced, untethered from everyday life.
It is a space to feel connected and purposeful and to challenge the preconceived ideas of the physical and emotional self. Within this space, a collaborative and intimate journey of power exchange, eroticism and contemplation begins.
The path is crafted to the needs of the individual and is always unique.
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“Intimacy is not only for arousing; It is a tool of access and can be used to investigate the entire spectrum of emotions. Arousal, lust and desire are a natural part of this spectrum, not something to be contained or isolated.
Beginning
Every session starts with an intention, a desire and a conversation.
On soft tatami, under dim lights, Sessions are opened with some breathwork and light stretching exercises to declutter the mind and bring focus to our Intentions.
The rope is an extension of my hands and is how I communicate most effectively. In this physical dialogue, I use the exchange of power to ask questions and draw information from the person being tied. The outcome of that conversation is unforeseeable, but its value is palpable through the authenticity of that connection.
Journey
As the intensity elevates, the inhibiting constraints of the real world soon dissolve as our concerns and worries fade to nothing.
Sessions are predominantly rope-based, but I enjoy incorporating the toys, implements and roleplays commonly found in BDSM. Please let me know if you have any specific requests or requirements in our pre-session discussion.
After the last rope is removed, the session is concluded with aftercare, a transitional period to come back to earth. It is a chance to reflect on the experience and bathe in the body's sensations and often includes a weighted blanket, an embrace and a final breathwork exercise.
SAFETY
If you'd like to know more about Shibari's risks and safety considerations, See the resources below.
Shibari is as dangerous as you make it and is not without risk. However, A thoughtful approach and good communication can virtually eliminate the significant dangers and mitigate the smaller ones. We have a shared responsibility to communicate our boundaries during a session and in the pre-session discussion. Transparent and direct dialogue is crucial for a good session and always results in a more enjoyable experience. Hanging from a single ankle might not be suitable for a beginner, but I'll certainly be able to recommend something just as exciting.
Sessions allow us to explore the unchartered emotional and physical territory and can involve complex mental states and challenging positions. My role as facilitator is to guide the person being tied through the journey safely and sustainably.
My focus is entirely on your experience and well-being from beginning to end, and I usually spot most signs of discomfort. Most concerns are addressed in the pre-session discussion, but communication is required during a session. Pre-agreed safewords and non-verbal gestures are used if something unexpected or unpleasant arises.
I am available for one-on-one intimate shibari/BDSM sessions, tuition and film work. My Studio is in East London, and I regularly work evenings and weekends.
If you’re interested in a session and would like to learn more, please follow the link below. I like to have as much information as possible before entering a session a free 20-minute consultation to discuss your intentions, questions and desires.
